Wireless Sync messes with contacts

[mwp98223]

I am using wireless sync to do my email, contacts and calendar. The "contacts" on my computer in Outlook are listed, generally, in First Name first listing. When I first loaded these onto my Q I used Active Sync and a data cord. Since I'm using wireless sync for my mail, I decided it was easier not to connect my Q to the computer all the time for contacts and calender, so I added these to wireless sync.

Now the problem. Wireless sync apparently "defaults" to listing contacts in the Last Name first format, and it reversed everything on my Q, even though they remain listed the way I want them on my computer. I have gone to the wireless sync PIM on line and tried to "switch" the listings, but it won't "save" the change. It keeps reverting.

Verizon tech support was no help. Basically saying there was no way to correct this and I should keep using Active Sync.

Anyone else have this issue and know a way to correct it so I can keep using wireless sync for all of this?