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The short answer to your question is to make sure that your controls have their TabStop = True and set the TabIndexes in order from 0 to n, with 0 being your topleftmost control, increasing to the right and down.
The control with TabIndex = 0 should get the focus when the form is first loaded.
Set TabStop = False for any control you don't want to have focus.