my ex rules/sucks

[starlightapril]

Originally Posted by DAB

Wow thats some strong feelings....... I don't think I would snipe my "BM" I would probably take out the judge that came up with the idea of child support though. Defenitily, after "BM" calls you to tell you she got the child support now shes off to Mohegan Sun Casino for the night.....

The first picture is of one of my twins8 my oldest son10 and the baby when he first came home. Snagged with my trusty "Q"

Second pic is of the baby with his due...(If anyone remmbers Kid "n" Play from house party looks like him)

I hate women like that!! They give us all a bad rep!

[cheri]

i dislike my ex more than you can believe. i never said a bad word about him to my son. although i had been told just to say my ex was dead. I would not do that.

my son saw him twice after we split once when he was too young to remember and the other when he was about 7 but by then his father had lost his sight due to his lifestyle and glaucoma.

Last my son heard from him is when he graduated early from high school and was leaving for boot camp. All his father did was bad mouth me to my son. This is a man that rarely made an effort to see his son and never paid child support ever.

On a different note i spoke to a woman who was living with the ex after he lost his sight. She said he was abusing her. So i told her he is blind right? Why dont you run? I guess love is not only blind but lends to paralisys in some people.

Lastly he last time i saw him was when my son was 7 in a mall in a store with his sister that i do talk to from time to time. how sad it was that he got lost with out his guiding stick calling to his sister for help. i could see him but would not help. You see he did used to have his eye sight when we were married so running didnt help. only been that close to death one other time.

[cheri]

that was fast!

[rudeboy]

Originally Posted by cheri

that was fast!

that's called Extra Quick service :}

[starlightapril]

Originally Posted by rudeboy

that's called Extra Quick service :}

HAR HAR!!! lol

[piranah]

My ex is one of those "it's your fault, you need to change" people. I never did anything right, and anytime I would ask if she would let me do things my way, it was a fight. There was no middle ground.

So when i suggested marriage counselor, she said that i could just go on my own and work on my own problems. She has never grown up, she still lives with her parents at age 22, which im glad for because they can make sure my kids are safe.

The guy she is dating is an "ex" drug dealer/user. he admits with pride that he used/s drugs. I went to school with the guy and know he is a total jerk as a person to begin with. So she got his name tattooed on her, and of course they broke up, but now they are back together again..guess some people never learn

[DAB]

[QUOi dislike my ex more than you can believe. i never said a bad word about him to my son. although i had been told just to say my ex was dead. I would not do that.

my son saw him twice after we split once when he was too young to remember and the other when he was about 7 but by then his father had lost his sight due to his lifestyle and glaucoma.

Last my son heard from him is when he graduated early from high school and was leaving for boot camp. All his father did was bad mouth me to my son. This is a man that rarely made an effort to see his son and never paid child support ever.

On a different note i spoke to a woman who was living with the ex after he lost his sight. She said he was abusing her. So i told her he is blind right? Why dont you run? I guess love is not only blind but lends to paralisys in some people.

Lastly he last time i saw him was when my son was 7 in a mall in a store with his sister that i do talk to from time to time. how sad it was that he got lost with out his guiding stick calling to his sister for help. i could see him but would not help. You see he did used to have his eye sight when we were married so running didnt help. only been that close to death one other time.[/quote]

My ex's mother once told me karma comes back around..... Now thats what I mean by coming back around!

I never try to bad mouth my kids mother around them. When ever they say "mommy told me this..." I just ask them if that sounds like me. My step daughters father is like Cheri's ex he doesn't have anything to do with her But one day after she saw how close my kids are with me she asked to call him. My wife put the number in and told her who to ask for he was at work at the time. When he did finally answer she asked him why he doesn't try to see her. He put her on hold and never picked up the phone again. Thats when I lost my patients and all reasoning went straight out the window. I went to his work the next day and explain in a very "assertive way" that was not being a man at all. If he didn't want to see her be a man and tell her flat out but putting her on hold was wack. My wife thinks its ok because I'm in the picture. But I tell her I go to her cheerleading competitions(YUK!how boring) I am the person that she cries to when she is scared or when she has a bad day at school. But deep down inside I can tell it hurts her like hell. But Karma comes back around so i'm sure god will eventually handle that chump.

[shaun0207]

Originally Posted by piranah

My ex is one of those "it's your fault, you need to change" people. I never did anything right, and anytime I would ask if she would let me do things my way, it was a fight. There was no middle ground.

So when i suggested marriage counselor, she said that i could just go on my own and work on my own problems. She has never grown up, she still lives with her parents at age 22, which im glad for because they can make sure my kids are safe.

The guy she is dating is an "ex" drug dealer/user. he admits with pride that he used/s drugs. I went to school with the guy and know he is a total jerk as a person to begin with. So she got his name tattooed on her, and of course they broke up, but now they are back together again..guess some people never learn

Damn! Thought mine was a P.I.A.

She got upset because my wife(Btw..Got married on Oct. 12th) and I told my two kids (my son and his brother, who is not miune byt I still take care of) and her son & daughter, that after shool everyday, they had to do homework, chores and then read 15pages out of the library books (we take them to get everyweek) everyday. No matter what. Well my son's brother didnt like it so he kept complainging to his that he didn wanna read and he didn wanna do chores. So she argued with me back and fourth about it for a week and then she decided I was right. Well, all the kids were making noise one morning and my wife told them all if they didnt stop she was gonna spank them all and ground them. Then my son's brother got mad and started crying (mine you he is 11yrs old) because I told him he couldnt go with my wife to the mall, because he hadnt seen his mother in over a week (she asked me to keep them because she claimed she had to move out of her appartment. She told the kids she didn wanna be bothered with them while she was on vacation). My wife had yelled at her daughter while out on the front steps for not paying attention in school and grounded her for a week. Well my son's brother proceeds to tell his mom that my wife yells at him like that and she never has. So my son's mother pulled them out of the schools I had them in ( I let her use my address so her son could go to a better school in my area) and told me I couldnt see my kids because I was letting my wife treat them any kind of way. So I told her this problem was not causeed by my son and I had been taking care of her other since before my son was born and if she wanted to act like this, that was it. I want doing anymore for him. His father refuses to deal with him because he hates her so much. So I've been taking care of this child close to 10yrs now.

Mind you anyone that knows me, knows I love my kids more thatn anything in this world and I wouldnt let anybody treat them bad. So I'm sueing her for custody of my son, but she refuses to accept the paperwork.

So I can relate to you. You dont even want to get me started on her boyfriends.

[piranah]

Originally Posted by shaun0207

Damn! Thought mine was a P.I.A.

So I can relate to you. You dont even want to get me started on her boyfriends.

I know the women will get mad at me about this, but guys do it too. Why do women feel then need to lie to us when its like, duh, i just saw you doing it?

[shaun0207]

Originally Posted by piranah

I know the women will get mad at me about this, but guys do it too. Why do women feel then need to lie to us when its like, duh, i just saw you doing it?

I feel you. We need a club.