Strange Thing #2: This is what happens if you have a headset connected and press the little button on the headset when no call is in progress. Sounds like the adapter is shorting the port when it is loosely in there mimicing pressing the button.......
Strange Thing #1: Have you tried plugging in a standard set of stereo headphones into the adapter? Do you hear stereo in the headphones. If not, then maybe the port on the Q is mono (possible but I would hope unlikely)?
FYI when I plug in a wired single-earpiece headset to the Q, and play an MP3, I only get one side.......which points to mono port. Because my earpiece plug has a stereo configuration (2 black rings)
EDIT: This may be your answer.....
http://www.cellphonemall.net/wireles...l.asp?id=46049