Help with locking phone

[capo8488]

don't do anything that you wouldn't want him to do..

[ladya]

Originally Posted by capo8488

why else would you want to totally lock your phone? just shut it off.

Because anybody could be calling me. I shouldn't have to miss important calls cuz he has trust issues.

[ladya]

Originally Posted by capo8488

don't do anything that you wouldn't want him to do..

I don't do things I wouldn't want him doing. I don't go through his things either and he shouldn't go through mine. I know you've heard the saying "if you go looking for trouble you're sure to find it".

[ladya]

Originally Posted by Bozz

I just verified that what you are saying is correct, even with the phone locked you can answer an incoming call. Not sure if there are any more secure options or not, none that I've found.

However, it sounds like you either:

a. Need a new boyfriend who won't snoop
b. Need to quit doing whatever you don't want him to know about!

Just some friendly advice.

Bozz

Good advice thanks, but in response to a. I love him, and in response to b. we are not married and you only live once!!!

[TreeFrog]

master reset...the boyfriend? Just back to factory defaults...

thats all I got! Oh..and good luck though!

[Bozz]

I dunno what to tell you, except I am glad I am not your boyfriend -- because you cannot be trusted. From the sounds of your response here it sounds as if you are not being faithful, which gives him reason to wonder/snoop.

Unfortunately I don't have a way for you to secure your phone.

Bozz

[Geekster]

Oh-let a girl jump in here, OK?
There are ppl out there & yes, *gasp*, some are men who think "love" is controlling everything in the other person's life. I see it so much, "me man-ugh-you woman, do what I tell you". & yes, woman can be just as bad.
Had, key word here, HAD a GF who couldn't even talk on the phone without the SOB right at her shoulder listening in to everything being said.
You guys assumed, presumed that she was doing something wrong. I see it from another perspective, she is just trying to have a little privacy even if it's just to talk to her friends, mother, etc without him having to know the whole conversation.
It sounds like to me he is just paranoid, jealous control freak. Give her a break, huh?
@ OP, see what you have started? LOL <jk>
Let the debate begin...... Keep it civil

[Bozz]

Originally Posted by Geekster

Oh-let a girl jump in here, OK?
There are ppl out there & yes, *gasp*, some are men who think "love" is controlling everything in the other person's life. I see it so much, "me man-ugh-you woman, do what I tell you". & yes, woman can be just as bad.
Had, key word here, HAD a GF who couldn't even talk on the phone without the SOB right at her shoulder listening in to everything being said.
You guys assumed, presumed that she was doing something wrong. I see it from another perspective, she is just trying to have a little privacy even if it's just to talk to her friends, mother, etc without him having to know the whole conversation.
It sounds like to me he is just paranoid, jealous control freak. Give her a break, huh?
@ OP, see what you have started? LOL <jk>
Let the debate begin...... Keep it civil

I agree, some men (& women) can be totally controlling.... like an obsession. Maybe the OP here is in that situation, maybe not. Notice she didn't DENY that she is doing anything wrong... maybe that was for the sake of keeping it interesting around here.

From someone who has been in a pretty successful relationship (marriage) for 14 years, I can tell you this.... it DOESN'T work if you don't have trust. So, if her boyfriend doesn't trust her, maybe it is with good reason. Maybe it isn't, maybe he's a control freak. Either way, the outcome is the same........IT DOESN'T WORK. If she has nothing to hide, then she shouldn't try and hide it, that only fuels the fire. If he is a control freak, then she needs to get rid of him because it will only get worse.

Just my .02
Bozz

[capo8488]

my advice would be thenn..find a new man?