how to use: bluetooth w/o phone ringing out loud

[drprnces]

Currently while using my bluetooth my phone will ring with I get calls, emails, and texts... both in the bluetooth and out loud (so others hear)
I would like the phone to ring only in the bluetooth....

I have tried vibrate and silent profiles but the only provide notifications in the bluetooth for phone calls... I would like it to provide text and email notifications as well.

I have completed the motorola software update (was told by one verizon associate that the update would solve the problem.... it didn't)..... have asked another verizon representative... they had no answer.

Is there any settings, tweaks, software.... anything that will work that will provide calls, text and email notifications to be heard only in the bluetooth (when it is connected)....

any help or direction will be appreciated