Hm. you are experiencing NO weird waits or inability to change options? are you running an exchane server?
Rudeboy- i tried with the developer last time. they were interested @ first and then just seemed to say 'it s what it is' and blame it being MAPI.
But- the problems I am having appear to be bugginess in the program itself. I haven't seen the other stuff (yet?) that was a problem... inability to turn off Flexmail handling SMS, unsent/missing texts...
I am seriously considering a reset and then a clean install of my apps.. you knwo, cuz I have all that time to waste and all! :D