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cheri · 04-16-2008, 12:51 AM

I just had to add this thread because I think its important to remember how wonderful we are.

Now I will explain why. It all started in the ladies locker room at the gym. This is not your typical meat market gym. It for the community so ya get all shapes, sizes fitness levels, ages etc. Of course after working at Gold's for as long as I did you learn to get over any issues you have to stepping on the floor with serious gym frequenters or get run over by them lol.

So Any way back to the locker room (no pics locker room sacred ground) I was busy getting ready and I do try to be sociable, friendly and this lady im talking to tells me "you look so beautiful"...i have a very diffcult time with compliments but was polite and thanked her. I dont think of myself like that at all.
but it was nice to hear even from the older crazy lady. lol she was sincere. A couple of other things like that happened...one i hear frequently is "what is the secret to your calves". Hey some ladies get perfect boobs, tiny waists maybe even a rockin deriere...my genetic pool bestows upon me perfect calves lol. Yippie! im very thankful they are in working order.

My point is so many of us are over whelmed by everything we do we forget about our selves. I have made a commitment to stop putting myself last. I think there is a big difference between pride in yourself and selfishness. Im hoping if anyone else (guys can too but its usually us ladies) wants to join me in moving more graceful, dignified thru life Im looking for inspiration and recruits lol.

What does this mean, i dont know. Im very aggrivated with shallow, demeaning and negative surroundings and people. So I want to do something about it i just dont know exactly what....but what ever it is Im doing something is happening...walls are collapsing and things I havent been tuned into before are becoming clear. like I said I dont know what it is but I know I want more.

I guess this is peri-menopause? lol no not yet
If you have something constructive to add be my guest.
((HUGS))

04-16-2008, 12:51 AM	#1 (permalink)
cheri Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: SF North Bay ;) Posts: 5,049 Thanks: 134 Thanked 91 Times in 86 Posts	For Us Ladies I just had to add this thread because I think its important to remember how wonderful we are. Now I will explain why. It all started in the ladies locker room at the gym. This is not your typical meat market gym. It for the community so ya get all shapes, sizes fitness levels, ages etc. Of course after working at Gold's for as long as I did you learn to get over any issues you have to stepping on the floor with serious gym frequenters or get run over by them lol. So Any way back to the locker room (no pics locker room sacred ground) I was busy getting ready and I do try to be sociable, friendly and this lady im talking to tells me "you look so beautiful"...i have a very diffcult time with compliments but was polite and thanked her. I dont think of myself like that at all. but it was nice to hear even from the older crazy lady. lol she was sincere. A couple of other things like that happened...one i hear frequently is "what is the secret to your calves". Hey some ladies get perfect boobs, tiny waists maybe even a rockin deriere...my genetic pool bestows upon me perfect calves lol. Yippie! im very thankful they are in working order. My point is so many of us are over whelmed by everything we do we forget about our selves. I have made a commitment to stop putting myself last. I think there is a big difference between pride in yourself and selfishness. Im hoping if anyone else (guys can too but its usually us ladies) wants to join me in moving more graceful, dignified thru life Im looking for inspiration and recruits lol. What does this mean, i dont know. Im very aggrivated with shallow, demeaning and negative surroundings and people. So I want to do something about it i just dont know exactly what....but what ever it is Im doing something is happening...walls are collapsing and things I havent been tuned into before are becoming clear. like I said I dont know what it is but I know I want more. I guess this is peri-menopause? lol no not yet If you have something constructive to add be my guest. ((HUGS))